Among the many and often conflicting ways to study the bible, one method stands alone. It is “outstanding.” Its uniqueness lies in its ability to open the heart of even the most entrenched believer while also respecting the convictions of the mature adult learner. It provides more light with less heat. It accepts adult learners on their own terms but “messages” them to move beyond ingrained beliefs. It avoids arguments but doesn’t avoid challenges. Remember that bible study is always more than neutral content. It impinges upon people’s values and strongly contended convictions, so tread lightly.
Our preferred method of bible study is dialogue. We assume that we know what dialogue is, but to better understand why it works for bible study, we need to dissect the concept a bit further. Dialogue is always more than two people talking. It is not a tandem conversation. Dialogue incorporates the best of the art of listening. Listening starts when we stop speaking. Listening happens when we are ready to hear something we do not think we already know.
Understanding the origins of the word”dialogue” helps us focus on its impact. Dialogue comes from the Greek word dialogos. Logos means “the word” or “meaning of the word.” Dia means “through.” A dialogue then is a “stream of meaning flowing through.” If dialogue happens as part of a discussion, it does so only when the participants are actively seeking mutual understanding. An argument is not a dialogue. Two people attempting to persuade each other may be a discussion, but it is not a dialogue unless there is a willingness to listen and change. Despite the fervor by which evangelicals might want to persuade, arguments do not lead to truth.